Saturday, March 7, 2009

Anonymously Yours...!

I don’t think I am a sore loser – but there are times when I really fume when I am put down by people (primarily because those people have tried to act extra smart and have woven a fallaciaous web around the facts to make me look like a fool). The sole purpose of my writing a blog was mainly to vent my frustration over various issues that I felt were worth writing about – sometimes my posts get a little to drab and predictable I admit but that’s just how I am and that’s just how I write. If you don’t like what I’ve written then don’t read it. I can’t stand people posting anonymously and making random (often hurtful) remarks about my character/personality/preference etc. I find such people gutless losers who are too scared to face the consequences of putting me down. So they take refuge in the very nice anonymous option that’s been provided to them by blogger. I would request such people to please grow a spinal chord before they set out to reform what seems to be the only delinquent on planet earth (i.e. me). 

Now you may ask why I haven’t turned that anonymous posting option off already. Well the reason is that I enjoy having such “friendly” banter with the kings/queens of Loserville. I thoroughly enjoy giving them large pieces of my mind (worry not theres enough to go around). It humors me to read how opinionated these anonymous entities can be – all the while calling me an opinionated b*tch. They give me reason to feel sorry for a small part of the human race which comprises of such people who quite frankly don’t have much of a life. Of late I have been very bitter about things in my life – this has caught the fancy of many anonymous experts. My persona has been laid bare on the dissection table and I dare say – the autopsy reports have been far from pleasant. 

My only questions to my anonymous “friends” are – WHY DO YOU CARE SO MUCH? 
If I think Britney Spears was once a man or if Bush should shove a nuke up his a*s – How does it affect you? What difference will it make in your lives if I am a born pessimist who has a jaundiced view of the world? If you think my writing is trashy – why do you bother reading it? What makes you think I am the least bit interested in your opinion about me? Do you honestly believe that your criticism is going to change me? Are you not aware of the fact that you need to think before you put things down in writing? Are you even capable of thinking? Do you have anything between your ears (ref to the human brain)? I’d like to hear honest anonymous answers…

Moving on – I haven’t written this to discourage Anonymous posts but infact it should be seen as an encouragement…most people write good stuff about my posts (not that it’s a bad thing) so seeing such attacks on my personality is a welcome (albeit slightly disturbing) change. I simply wish the quality of the bashing improves – currently I find most of the anonymous comments quite brainless. They seem to be a lame attempt at putting me down – sadly they haven’t had much effect – I honestly couldn’t care less. Anyways got things to do…till next time…cheerio!

4 comments:

Tys on Ice said...

on a positive note...maybe the anonimity helps them to voice what they think u shud hear, without u having ur say... its like a one sided conversation...in one sided conversations, the best approach wud be to hear and ignore, or hear and take what is valid and ignore the rest, or just ignore...

but i think the time a comment affects u, leave a mark, rubs u the wrong way, then observe it...why does it bother u? what gave it that importance?

but then, iam almost all the time wrong.

laddu said...

hmmm....long back even i had once commented anonymously on 1 of my fds-fds post n she said dat i am being a coward by posting anonymously....

Kapila Pande said...

well yea i agree wid u tys - since these anonymous people are too spineless to come out and say it in my face the anonimity helps - but i dare say its never a one sided convo - even then i give them a piece of my mind...and yes the comments do rub me the wrong way because most of the time they make no sense and are just lame accusations with no head or tail - that bothers me because i hate to see people put in so much effort to write trash :)

@laddu
y did u post anonymously then??? any ulterior motives? ;)

laddu said...

@ kapila..
nope....no ulterior motives.. even i dunno y i did dat..i stopped doing after dat thou.... even i felt bad wen someone posted anonymously on my blog once..i went ahead n disabled it....

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